so, as usual, that question is very popular question bila jumpa extended family. kan? and as usual, i answered them honestly, i don't know. or maybe next year. i always brushed it off and changed the topic. its not because i hate them asking me question that i don't know the answer but i know that they are also trying very hard to initiate the conversation. after all, we rarely see them kan? so layan je la.
we saw MakNgah, our favourite makcik. well, we have many of them. but MakNgah hold a special place in our heart. mainly because she was the one who was there to act as an adult to Ma & Abah after our Opah passed away. she took care of us. most importantly, she took care of Hariz, my brother when Opah was gone so suddenly. he was still a baby and MakNgah is an angel sent from above. may she be protected and bless by Him. Amin.
so yeah, we saw her. its a yearly ritual. she asked me the same question. i answered it with: tahun depan kot MakNgah. she took it seriously. or i thought so. because she was hoping that i will go visit her next year with my other half. HAHAHA. so, i asked her to doa for me. and she said she always did that.
she always prayed that my sister and i will meet our other half and get married so she can finally see it. i was closed to tears. i never knew that. well, people always asked that question and i never expect to hear that. that there are some people who prayed for other people's happiness. isn't that so beautiful?
it remind me to always be nice because we never knew.
so, next time, if people ask you that question, just answer them. bukan susah pun. tak payah bitter sangat kan? kahwin tahun dpn or tak, you never knew. :)
